How To Make Your Ex Regret Leaving/ Dumping You
I know just about everyone who is dumped and broken up with wants their ex to regret leaving you- Whether you want them back or decide they’re not right for you. Ya still probably want them to regret it.
I got an email today from Alex who said:
Hi Craig, I’m a huge fan of your channel and have been watching you for several months. My ex broke up with me and left me for another guy. Your videos are truly the only things that have made me feel any better. So thank you so much for that.
I have been having a really difficult time with my break up. I’ve been anxious, depressed and in a really bad place. I look at her social media and cannot believe all the pictures she is posting with this new guy. It makes me sick to my stomach. The guy isn’t even good looking. He’s out of shape and he lives with his parents. I’m so angry and hurt by what she did. I wish more than anything I could make her regret what she did.
Can you please make a video on how to make your ex regret breaking up with you?
A lot of you are coming from a place of hurt and anger. Completely normal. It hurts our self esteem. But you can take a break up and use it to inspire you.
That’s one of the things I love about break ups. Nothing motivates a person more than going through a break up.
Can you think of anytime in your life where you have been more motivated? You can’t. So focus on the fact that if you stay motivated enough, you will probably put yourself in the best place you have ever been.
So here are some ways you can make your ex regret the break up:
Stay positive- especially on social media. don’t post or say anything negative. Don’t post depressing memes or songs about how you miss them.
When you do post on social media- let them see your awesome life
You want to Display a high status.
For example: Get in shape, if you go back to school, get a better job or a promotion. Do something you’ve always wanted to do.
Now make sure you do these things for you. I know in many cases it’s because you want them back. But the changes are going to be a lot more likely to stick of they are for you.
So focus on your life- but make sure it’s unrelated to them or getting them back.
Find your passion in your life. We all have different gifts. Figure out yours and share it to make the world better. Nothing will feel better than helping other people.
Learn more about love and relationships than you’ve ever learned before. Learn to be a better partner, not for them, but for you. Because you want to be the best version of yourself.
Focus on working through your attachment trauma. Get a local therapist. Do coaching with me. Nobody knows more about this stuff than I do. I lived it. Going through incredibly painful break ups and having massive amounts of anxiety is what fueled my desire to learn everything I possibly could about relationships and break ups.
I used my break ups to help me be who I am today.
Turn your weaknesses into strengths. Look at the things that you need to improve and make them something that would shock your doubters.
Live the life they wish they could
When they do come back around- don’t be petty. Don’t try to rub it in their face. “Oh Now you like me”.
Show emotional Strength
Either ask them to hang out- or enjoy knowing they made a mistake
Even if they never know, you’ll know. And nothing should be more satisfying than that.